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"A household located in north London wants to find an extraordinary and skilled tutor to guide their smallest child on his early path to turning into an English gentleman."

Looking at this advertisement, you might readily miss the wording "initial stages" as just a turn of phrase.

But, it might be the most significant aspect of this distinctive position posting, as it aims to find a tutor for a 12-month-old.

Hundreds of submissions have now been submitted since the anonymous family advertised their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "a uniquely qualified person".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has received notice throughout the press, with several questioning why?

Forward-Thinking Method

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of a global tutoring firm, which is supporting the family in their quest, stated that notwithstanding first skepticism, he viewed the idea "forward-looking", and "advanced".

When he met the family, he mentioned they understood the unconventional character of their requirement, and how immature their son is.

However, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had postponed until their older child was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had by then set in".

But what does the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "comprehensive", Adam answered. "The way you eat, the manner you speak".

He said the firstborn had picked up "really subtle, unspoken signals" from the family, and had adopted their cultural norms. The family informed the consultant they did not want history to happen again with their younger child.

The intention: To engage a English tutor, who needs to speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby from the very start.

Natural Absorption

"Much of the development at the beginning here is kind of acquired indirectly," said the expert.

It's via this natural absorption that the family are hoping the child will pick up the British traits they wish to cultivate.

The consultant said the tutor needed to be someone who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Money No Object

The family informed him the successful candidate should ideally also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in horse riding, alpine skiing, creative fields and instrumental training so as to influence the child in a diverse set of hobbies.

More than that though, he said the family hoped the tutor to register the child on a range of classes so the child would be "equestrian training and starting an tool by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's minds, guiding their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will result in accomplishment and provide access.

"For all the pros and cons of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he notes.

But, despite all this tutelage in "UK identity", might the child absorb so-called cultural bias from the multicultural family he lives with in any case?

"Certainly", replied the CEO. "The parents realize this could fail, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and we'll proceed as quickly as we can', because the price of it is not relevant," he said.

Overly Optimistic

Several in the private teaching field who have these reservations.

An education leader, chief executive of a tutoring service, who provides personal educators, commented that "the process of embracing two identities, or indeed, discovering oneself, is something that must be lived into, not manufactured."

The expert noted that he had moved from China to the UK at the period of seven, and had been brought up experiencing and living dual heritages. He went on to be educated at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that one individual can serve as a embodiment of English culture, a person who can somehow transfer the characteristics of a English gentleman upon a infant child, strikes me as idealistic and unfeasible," he commented.

"In my experience, employing a quintessentially English tutor from infancy will does not instantly produce the result they want.

"I never had such a figure, and yet I have been privileged enough to experience several of the situations they aspire for their son."

He added: "The truth is, cultural identity cannot be imposed from the external environment; it must be chosen, and it must originate internally."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the expert believes can be instructed – and marketed.

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